Double burden
It’s been a while for me on this blog and I have been thinking about this subject for a couple of classes now even though we have moved on a bit. After reading The Solitude of Self, I do feel like society has come a long way towards viewing women and men with the same respect since Stanton’s time. It is easier for women, as Gornick beautifully stated, “know the freedom of money, education, and sexual experience”. But, with this greater freedom has come unexpected responsibility. I have heard this responsibility called “double burden” Double burden is a term that describes the workload of women who work to earn money but also have the responsibility for unpaid, domestic labor in the household. According the online dictionary of social sciences, Canadian studies have consistently shown that women still perform far greater domestic care than men and are therefore subjugated to a far greater workload than men both in Canada and the United States. I believe that there should be programs in place to counter this societal balance such as daycare at the workplace and longer maternity leave without fear of losing your job. However, I won’t go as far as the Soviets. They actually viewed household activities as a burden so much so that they turned childrearing and chores into communal activities. I, in fact, look forward to the day in which I can have a successful career and a happy, healthy family. Hopefully, my theoretical husband will help me with this. I am sure both Stanton and Gornick would agree with me on this point of continuing equality in the workplace by enabling specific programs to ease the double burden. But, since reading Salvatore’s book on socialist leader Eugene Debs, I am not entirely convinced that women are the only ones to lose by following societal stereotypes. If a man’s worth is entirely tied to the workplace, such as it has been since the early 1900’s, if a man follows this view can he feel the same self worth as a woman that takes pride in her public and private sphere. It may be equal but opposite oppression. A man that chooses to stay at home with his children while his wife works a powerful job that man may be looked down upon by his neighbors because he is not providing for his wife and family. What do you think?